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Friday, April 28, 2017

Freeform Friday


We're going to our first full gala this weekend; good friends are involved in a wonderful organization that supports families with autism, and we're joining them for the dinner plus the afterglow (the only part we've attended in the past). It's a marvelous excuse to dress up and go out on the town. I bought my dress back in January, so I'm excited to get it out of the closet and show it a good time.

I hope you have a marvelous weekend, and I hope you enjoy these links from around the web.

A peak inside David Sedaris' newest book.

All aboard the Wes Anderson quirk express (due to arrive in April 2018).

My kind of road trip.

I'd like to see the world through these rose colored glasses.

What's for dinner (with an egg on top, of course).

Thinking outside the box.

Still need to get out to see this social thriller movie.

Ideas for teacher appreciate week (and any other time you want to make a teacher feel valued).

I love this method of getting a good book out to the masses.

A must-see trailer for Pixar fans.

A hilarious look back on Trump's first 100 days.

[Photo from Our Moveable Feast on Instagram.]

Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Thank You, Teachers


With teacher appreciation week fast approaching, parents everywhere are looking for ideas on what to get their beloved classroom teachers. I've seen message boards with people peddling their wares (LuLaRoe leggings! Scented candles! Personalized everything!), but that's not my game. As a teacher myself, I know that all gifts are appreciated, but some are much more helpful (and wanted) than others.

Here are the things I've been doing throughout the year to help spread the love and make my son's awesome, caring, patient, and kind teachers feel appreciated.

At the end of the first month, we dropped off a fresh loaf of bread from an amazing local bakery and a nice jar of preserves. I worked at a bakery in college, and going home with a nice loaf of bread made my day. For real.

When we went on vacation for the weekend, we brought back a big bag of cookies from a specialty bakery that the town we went to is known for and delivered them to the teachers the next day at school.

For Thanksgiving, I asked my kids to write a thank you to their teachers. They don't get thanked enough, and this holiday is a good reminder to appreciate who you have.

When my son shared that his teacher said a homemade dessert he talked about sounded good, I made it again the next weekend and sent some in for his teachers. This one is tricky; as a teacher I don't always trust homemade goods, but I took a risk on this one because of the feedback my son gave. I knew it might go in the trash (sorry, moms, but this happens with sketchy looking home baked goods!), but I thought I'd chance it.

While out shopping, my daughter saw some blooming spring bulbs in her teacher's favorite color, so we got her a pot and brought them to school the next day.

I volunteered in my son's class this spring during a period of some stressful testing, and I brought with me an assortment of tasty treats, both salty and sweet, that I didn't make. I packaged them in recycled berry cartons with colorful tissue paper, put them in a box top, and delivered them to my son's classroom.

Looking for more ideas? Here are some favorites from my teacher friends:

Sarah said her favorite teacher gift was, "A letter. I still have it and read it when I need a boost!"

Lindsay, an elementary school teacher, added that she likes, "A little potted succulent or orchid and a nice little gift certificate. Another great gift was French cinnamon chip bread with nice jams and a gift card to the bread place."

"My favorites are works of art by my students. I once had a student who took a glass blowing class outside of school. She made me a gorgeous old-fashioned perfume bottle with a glass stopper," said Kristin, a high school art teacher.

Carina, a high school English teacher said, "My students painted a collage of characters from all of the texts we read throughout the year, and included a knife-weilding English teacher - she looked suspiciously like me. The knife was a nod to the Gothic literature that I love...not that I am a killer."

Rebekah's favorite gift was, "A scrapbook of their favorite moments in class. Quotes, life lessons, and a rap about what I brought to the classroom that year."

Chris most liked, "A really nice note with specific references to things the student appreciated and was thankful for."

"My favorites have always been the heartfelt letters. Those always make you feel like what you do matters. That doesn't mean I turn down some of the other cool things students have done for me over the years. I had one group of students throw me a surprise party that included all this random stuff I'd mentioned I loved over our time together... really random inside jokes. It was so sweet and had me cracking up. I often have kids buy me lunch when they go out. They bring me back things to thank me for giving up my lunches. I often get gift cards and always feel awkward about taking them. Free food is always good though," said Christy. 

"A dozen roses from a graduating senior because I 'didn't give up on him,"' were Letitia's favorites.

"When I left my old school, a student's parent gave me a party, made me a t-shirt with all my students' names, made a plaque with a poem about teachers and a lollipop tree. It was so thoughtful and sweet," replied Jami, an elementary school teacher.

Laura said, "I had a parent bring me Chipotle during finals grading period. Also made homemade brownies to boot!"

Amie remembered, "A student I had in class the year before dropped in to see me the first day of the new school year and said 'Oh my gosh, you are not going to believe what a found at a garage sale this summer!' She handed me a tattered and loved copy of Whitman's Leaves of Grass, of which we had read excerpts in class. After browsing through it, commenting on how cool it was, I went to hand it back--assuming she was just sharing her sweet find-- when she insisted, 'Oh no, I got it for you!' She said she knew I would love it, and she was right."

As for me, last year a sweet student gave us a night of free babysitting so we could go out to a movie. His mom told him that's what every parent of little kids wants, and she was spot on.

What ideas would you add to the list? If you're a teacher, what were your favorite gifts?

Friday, April 21, 2017

Freeform Friday


We're taking the kids to the movies tonight for the release of this new film (after indulging in Chinese takeout for dinner, of course). On Saturday my husband and I are also going to our first ever adult only school event, a fundraiser and silent auction at a local brewery. It's funny how this first year of our son's schooling includes all of us navigating so many first experiences alongside him. Cheers to new friends and endeavors!

I hope you have a grand weekend, and I hope you enjoy clicking through some favorite links from around the web.

What happens when women legislate.

Letter of Recommendation: Michigan.

A peak into Frida Kahlo's stunning wardrobe.

The best kind of friendships.

We have new neighbors!

Looking for a new city to live in? How about this list? I'm partial to the number one slot.

Ivanka's notes for the babysitter.

Why conservatives aren't bothered by Trump's golfing.

Can this class be mandatory for the next election?

Love the print (and pockets!) of this dress.

Vacation dreaming.

A friend introduced me to the effectiveness of shipping containers in architecture, and this project looks amazing.

Happy Record Store Day!

[Image from Disneynature's Born in China.]

Friday, April 14, 2017

Freeform Friday


Grateful that the weekend is finally here, we're kicking back tonight with dinner at a fun drive-in (complete with carhops!). A Tax Day protest, including a pre-rally brunch at a friend's, will fill up Saturday, and I'm hoping the weather is sunny for an outdoor Easter egg hunt on Sunday.

I hope you have a lovely weekend, and I hope you enjoy these links from around the web.

How to travel with kids and enjoy it.

Twenty-nine dishes to take to friends who could use a homemade meal.

Still thinking about how good this movie is (a week after watching it!).

What should happen after the end of the school day?

Tempting travel via this family-friendly house rental and exchange.

These make me so happy each time I put them on.

Literature themed cookies were a huge hit at book club last week.

Celebrate National Poetry Month with these 10 accessible poets.

Fascinating infograph on dominant employers in each state.

This is what a failed competence test looks like.

The perfect solution for those without space for a bedside table.

This made me giggle.

[Photo from the kaleidoscope at Matthaei Botanical Gardens. Find more at Our Moveable Feast on Instagram.]

Saturday, April 8, 2017

Fourteen Books with Strong Female Voices


While recently looking online for books to read over vacation, I was disappointed to find the same titles over and over again when I searched for feminist books. While I enjoy The Handmaid's Tale and We Should All Be Feminists, they're certainly not the only titles out there.

So, I put together a list of my favorite books with admirable women and girls. They're gutsy, smart, outspoken, and daring. They also have voices in a variety of ages because bravery isn't something only adults should aspire to, and young girls can learn to be true to themselves, too.

The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks, by E. Lockhart, is a coming-of-age story about a quick-witted young woman who smashes the patriarchy of her school one (culturally critical) prank at a time. Don't pass over this because it has an adolescent narrator; it's a smart and entertaining read no matter how you look at it.

Julia Child's memoir My Life in France dares readers to try new things, reinvent themselves mid-life, and chop onions faster than a room full of male classmates. Child is a true trailblazer both in her field of French cooking and in resisting family pressure to marry a conservative and settle down.

Persepolis, Marjane Satrapi's outstanding graphic novel memoir, shares the author's experience growing up under the shifting and oppressive regime in Iraq and her journey in learning how to be true to her outspoken ways in a country that didn't often support such behaviors from women.

Euphoria's fictionalized account of notable anthropologist and feminist Margaret Mead is an inspiring, and at times steamy, tale of a woman who wasn't afraid of being the smartest person in the room, even when that room contains a jealous collaborator and husband.

Bossypants exemplifies Tina Fey's saying "You can tell how smart people are by why they laugh at." Spolier alert: Fey is just as smart as she is funny, and her collection of essays will have you laughing and thinking (which is a win-win as far as I'm concerned).

The Paper Bag Princess models for young readers that girls are perfectly capable of outwitting villains and don't need to take shit from the boys in their life, even if they're a good looking prince.

The Golden Compass, and the two companion books in His Dark Materials trilogy, follows the adventures of Lyra, the book's hero, a smart girl who dares to question everyone and everything.

The Color Purple is Alice Walker's masterpiece and an absolute classic; it shows courage and bravery from two sisters in the face of unimaginable adversary as young girls who grow into women who think and act for themselves despite pressure from every direction to submit.

Otherwise is a vivid, incredibly readable collection of Jane Kenyon's poetry that candidly discusses her struggle with depression, celebrations of the everyday joys in life, and incredible bravery facing terminal cancer in her late 40s.

In the Time of Butterflies is superb historical fiction that chronicles the brave and inspiring Mirabal sisters of the Dominican Republic who dared to resist the dictator Triujillo despite guaranteed tragic outcomes.

The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate appeals to both history and science lovers; fiction set in 1899,  young Callie's quest is to follow her interests and passions in the field of botany with her encouraging mentor and grandfather. This comes as a direct rebellion against her mother's desire for to her be be a proper lady who stays at home to cook and sew.

Their Eyes Were Watching God is the book I fell in love with when I was 16, and it's the first adult text I remember connecting to. Janie's quest for self, love, and belonging carry her through several marriages and many difficulties, but she is always able to hold her head high and persist.

What books would you add to this list?

Friday, April 7, 2017

Freeform Friday


Our week of vacation is still in high-gear, and this weekend I'm taking the kids to two local, zany and amazing festivals that we make it to each year (including the eve of my daughter's birth). We're also celebrating my husband's return from a long work trip abroad, and the kids are super excited to see what he brought them from Italy. Paired with a book club to discuss The Handmaid's Tale, this party isn't slowing down until Sunday night.

I hope you have a fantastic weekend, and I hope you enjoy my favorite links from around the web.

What I'd give for one of these to go with our tall bookshelves.

Does your house suffer from McMansion Hell (on this hilarious scale)?

perfect visual metaphor.

Vintage behind-the-scenes photos from Beetlejuice.

The inspiration for my four-year-old's birthday tea party.

Fun additions for Easter baskets.

Celebrate National Poetry Month!

How to help a grieving friend.

Appreciating thin slices of joy (and how doing so helps abate jealous or sad feelings).

The grammar version of Banksy.

The problem with shunning women as dining companions.

The world needs more groups like Knitted Knockers.

Fun with anagrams.

Paper cutouts bring new life to familiar landmarks.

Great Lake or ocean?

[Photo of my son staying warm at FoolMoon in 2014.]