Search This Blog

Friday, December 30, 2016

Freeform Friday


Happy end of the year to you! We're keeping it low key this New Year's Eve and plan on going out for a simple dinner at a fun, new spot. My biggest accomplishment this past week was watching five movies in four days and finishing two books, and I hope to keep the streak going into week two of vacation.

I hope you have a  lovely new year, and I hope you enjoy clicking through my favorite links from the past week.

celebration of Stevie Wonder, and a reminder to appreciate those who inspire us while they're still around.

On a related note, have you heard Wonder's cover of "We Can Work it Out"? Damn.

Looking forward to #16.

A bromance for the ages.

This is my kind of stacked roster.

What's on the minds of 2.9 million Americans as 2016 comes to a close.

The 20 best films of 2016. I'm delighted to see Linklater at #15 , and I second their recommendations for #19, #10, #4, and the single best film I've seen in ages, #2; #1 is still on my to-watch list.

Smile inducing photos from 2016.

Good morning to you and you and you and you; thank you for the songs, Debbie.

Pimento cheese bites? Yes, please.

[Photo of Grace Kelly with a tall glass of bubbles.]

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Eight Easy, Green New Year's Resolutions

These New Year's resolutions will help you put less rubbish on the curb each week, save money, cut your carbon footprint, and give you a cleaner conscience knowing that you're making little changes that can add up to a big impact on the environment.

Cloth napkins come in cute prints (which are also great for hiding stains), and they last for years. Use use them every day, although I do have one set I save for holiday dinners. My favorite sources are vintage sets picked up on Etsy and reuse/antique shops, and I like to get new sets from T.J. Maxx. I've also turned vintage tablecloths with holes in an isolated spot into napkins, like the ones pictured below, with the help of my super crafty mom. Pro tip: go for cotton over linen if you're not a fan of ironing.


We ditched paper towels in favor of cloth rags years ago. Once or twice a year I gather all of the grubby t-shirts in our house, snip off the sleeves, and cut them up the sides to turn them into two rags. I keep a basket under the sink with clean rags and another near the stairs for dirty rags (and napkins!) so they can easily get toted to the laundry room.


Our countertop compost bin is a simple way to keep compostables out of the trash and into the backyard heap or compost bin for city pickup. We picked up this one at our neighborhood Ace Hardware and have been super happy with it.


Glass and aluminum water bottles are an easy swap out for wasteful plastic water bottles. I like Life Factory and Klean Kanteen with sport tops, and they go to work and school, on trips, to soccer games, and playdates with the kids.
We also have a bunch of milk bottles with straws from Target's dollar section that my kids love; they will drink pretty much anything I put in front of them if I put a straw in it, and there are plenty of reusable straws out there.


I also say "no thanks" to plastic and paper shopping bags as much as possible, and I save and reuse any that do come come. These are my favorite reusable shopping bags to keep in my purse or the side door of the car; they are super light weight and have a snap closure so they fold up small. For a weekly shopping trip to the grocery, I like these sturdy totes.
Although babies in diapers are a thing of the past in our house (yay!), we did use cloth diapers for about five years. I still swear by their performance and ability to contain even the nastiest messes. We also used small flannel squares (my crafty mom made those, too) and a squirt bottle of Dr. Bronner's lavender liquid soap solution rather than chemical-filled disposable wipes. And, now that we're done with diapers, I still have great wet bags for swim lessons and dirty clothes that come home from sleepovers at Nonna's house.


What are your favorite ways to keep it green?

Friday, December 23, 2016

Freeform Friday



Happy vacation! We're spending our time off sleeping in, coloring, baking, reading, and visiting with family for the holiday. We also get to indulge in two of my favorite vacation activities: leisurely lunches out and weekday story time with the kids.

I hope you have a lovely holiday, and I hope you enjoy clicking through these links (when you may or may not be hiding from your family in the bathroom of your relative's house).

Looking for a great poem to read at the holiday table? How about this, this, or this.

Feminist books for good girls AND boys.

The perfect gift for someone on the (little bit) naughty list.

A tempting addition to bedtime stories.

Just in time for some holiday laughs: David Sedaris reads his essay "Santaland Diaries."

This feminist pirate song has perfect cultural commentary.

Must-read books for fans of film.

Eek! New details about Wes Anderson's newest film.

Tips for going to the Women's March on Washington.

A beautifully written essay on solitude by Donald Hall.


[Photo by A. Eldon of the Anna Scripps Whitcomb Conservatory.]

Friday, December 16, 2016

Freeform Friday


We had a four-day work week thanks to a Monday snow day (where I stayed in my pajamas until 4:00 and finished an entire book), and we have four days next week before going on winter break Thursday afternoon; that's a schedule I could get used to. This weekend we're looking forward to a holiday party with some of our closest friends and a visit to Santa with the kids. Hopefully they ask for a Totoro and Catbus because that's what Santa is getting them. I hope you have a lovely weekend, and I hope you enjoy clicking through my favorite links from the past week.

A stunning collection of perfectly constructed film shots.                      

Three short stories from the always impressive Sherman Alexie.

On that note, here are details about the plans for an Absolutely True Diary film.

Find a theater that is playing this documentary on street cats.

More reasons to watch Moonlight.

I adore this Lego lovin' family for so many reasons.

Check out these amazing auteurs.

Need a visual for trustworthy news sources? This is for you.

This. Exactly this.

The future is female.

A hilarious collection of laugh out loud essays.

My favorite Christmas read.

[Photo of a our backyard with a snowy Honey Creek.]

Friday, December 9, 2016

Freeform Friday

"Hey, Sally! You want me to trimma tree for ya?" 
-Holden from J.D. Salinger's The Catcher in the Rye
This weekend we're going to tim our tree, hope for several inches of snow to play in, and celebrate my husband's almost milestone birthday at a new French restaurant in town. I'm also planning on hunkering down in front of the fire to finish writing an article I've been working on and finally address the Christmas cards that have been sitting around all week waiting to go out in the post.

I hope you have a lovely, cozy weekend, and I hope you enjoy clicking through my favorite links from the past week.


What romance scenes would look like if films were feminist.

On a related note, dialogue analysis of film scripts reveals absolutely nothing shocking about a lack of female voices in film. 

My gift to you, dear reader: NPR's Book Concierge guide to 2016’s great reads.

Sherman's Alexie's podcast on writing in the era of Trump. 

How to self-check the news and get the facts.

After looking at this analysis of Twitter, I now can literally see the damage the disappearance of newspapers is having on our country. 

Dorthea Lange's stunning, censored photos of Japanese concentration camps. 

Five hundred years of European women in art

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

The Power of Three Deep Breaths


I was talking to my students recently about tricks for calming down before giving a presentation, and one of my best tips is to take three deep breaths before starting a speech. I'm talkin' about all the way down to your stomach deep breaths.

I was reminded that it's a great tip for calming down in any situation, not just speeches. Few things can't be fixed or dealt with after taking three deep breaths.

Three deep breaths calm you.They force you to step back from the situation you're dealing with.They allow you to reset.

They may even prevent you from yelling, "Stop yelling!" at your own children or losing your cool when trying to reason with a Trump supporter. Maybe.




Saturday, December 3, 2016

Holiday Gift Ideas


The first blustery days of December always gets me in the mood to finish off my shopping for the holiday season and looking for the next greatst hit. Here are some favorite gifts I've gotten and given, and I even doubled up from some stores because free shipping with a minimum order is no joke.

Gifts for bigs:

Your cocktail is going to look so good in these rock cups.

This classic vase looks great with or without flowers.

A banned books mug for the reader in your life.

A cute tote for our favorite elementary school teacher (or this one for high school).

Keychain and patch stocking stuffers for Wes Anderson fans.

Album cover frames for your vinyl lover.

It's hard to go wrong with a nice bag of beans like these or these.

The Dude abides by these white Russian ingredients.

Cozy slippers like these for her or these for him.

Gifts for littles:

The perfect gift for builders that my kids play with almost every week.

Game time is fun time with this and this.

This bag and mat is amazing for containing Legos.

thoughtful bank that shows kids how to spend, save, and give their money.

This dinosaur set gets serious action in our house.

My son adores this Star Wars pillow that he carries all over the house.

This mug sleeve is great for identifying plain water bottles.

Gifts for everyone: 

I'm a big fan of classes and memberships as gifts, too. My favorites have been swim lessons, a membership to our Hands-On Museum, a membership to our historic movie theater, and amazing cooking classes.

Friday, December 2, 2016

Freeform Friday


This weekend we're celebrating my son's sixth birthday with friends and family, and we'll indulge him in all things Lego and dinosaur. Kid birthday celebrations are not complete without an incredible birthday cake, and this year the birthday boy picked out a strawberry and buttercream confection. I'm already dreaming of a cake-induced coma in front of a cozy fire. Somebody wake me up when the recount is over.

I hope you have a lovely weekend, and I hope you enjoy clicking through my favorite links from the last week.

Have you seen the new Stones music video? Extra love for the vintage fastback Mustang (which happens to the first car I owned as a fresh-faced sixteen-year-old). It's just as fun to drive as Kristen Stewart makes it look.

Wes Anderson's new ad featuring Adrien Brody. Hell yeah.

Sometimes I love fake Amazon reviews.

These are the only Bible quotes I want to see on the side of a Starbucks cup.

I listened to this song about 25 times at max volume today, and I've since developed a serious crush on this guy.

We saw this movie last weekend, and I can't stop thinking about it.

Offline streaming from Netflix? Yes, please.

Love the cozy slippers and simple jacket in this gift guide.

Thank you, internet!

You know Wikipedia is completely legit, right?

Spot-on movie recs for kids (and adults who may have missed them!).

One more Christmas movie you might have missed and need to see.

[Photo of my sweet boy on his fifth birthday.]