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Friday, January 26, 2018

Freeform Friday


Today caps off a busy week of finals at work, so I'm taking the advice I gave my students and indulging in some much needed self-care. Between happy hour with girlfriends, a massage, and a movie out with my favorite guy, that should do the trick and help me recharge over the weekend.

I hope you have a restful weekend, and I hope you enjoy my favorite links from the past week.

How to maintain meaningful friendships.

Every wonder why Hermione had such an unusual patronus?

This slow roasted pork looks especially hyggeligt for a cold winter day.

Watch this incredible animation that shows how deep humans have dug.

What even matters anymore?

We can dream, can't we?

RBG's Gins-Burns.

Female-Led Films Won at the Box Office in 2017 for the First Time in 59 Years.

Sundance hit The Tale is a based on a true story that's going to make you uncomfortable.




[Photo from Out of the Bex on Instagram.]

Thursday, January 25, 2018

Eight Films to Watch for a Girl's Night

One of the things I love about my book club is that each season we have a social event outside of our monthly meeting. We've gone on a brewery tour in Grand Rapids, a day and night out in Detroit, and a couple times a year we get together for a movie night.

We try to pick a film that, like our books, will inspire good conversation and is about interesting women. To this effect, movies many of us have seen, and even old favorites, make great choices so we don't miss too much while we talk and watch together. We also try to pick something that's on the lighter side because laughter and sparking wine (a requirement for out get togethers) just go together.

Here are some of the films we've watched together or have on our list for future film nights.

Grey Gardens (1975)
Big Edie and Little Edie are the eccentric stars of this documentary set in a decaying mansion in East Hampton. Inspired by the outlandish clothing choices, we came dressed to this movie night in our best Little Edie costumes -- head wraps were a requirement for entry.

9 to 5 (1980)
The sentiment behind the #metoo movement isn't new to those who have been around the block a few times, and this cast of lady bosses is here to remind you that sometimes enough is enough.

Dirty Dancing (1987)
First love, acts of rebellion involving steamy dance scenes, and a collection of stellar one-liners  ("Carried a watermelon?!?") make this nostalgic film a perfect pick. Afterwards you can reminisce about your first loves (who were in no way as hot as Johnny).

Clueless (1995)
This modern twist on Jane Austen's Emma deserves its cult classic following. Directed by the talented Amy Heckerling, this cheeky film gets bonus points for playful, cutting dialogue and fantastically 90s costumes.

Bridesmaids (2011)
Comic great Kristen Wiig is at her best in this comedy about a woman who deals with her chaotic life while balancing the daunting duties of being maid of honor for her best friend's wedding. Melissa McCarthy's intense character is a great scene stealer, too.


Moonrise Kingdom (2012)
This Wes Anderson film centers on the very serious Suzy, a dissatisfied teenage who decides to run away from home with her pen pal Sam. Anderson's visual appeal (Colors! Costumes! Tiny details!) make this quest story better than your average coming of age tale.

Trainwreck (2015)
Amy Schumer is a comic force to be reckoned with, and you'll belly-laugh your way through this tale of a journalist's unexpected romance with the studious but smitten subject of her profile piece.


Ladybird (2017)
Watch director Greta Gerwig's fantastic film with your girlfriends and/or mom, and then break out the wine so you can admit what an asshole you were, too, in high school.


What favorite films would you add to the list?

Friday, January 19, 2018

Freeform Friday


Gearing up for an especially cozy weekend, we're tucking in to a favorite Wes Anderson film at home tonight and have grand plans to make cookies and drink tea tomorrow. Paired with some warm wool blankets and a crackling fire, it should be especially hyggeligt. I hope you have an especially cozy weekend, and I hope you enjoy my favorite links from the past week.

Watching this supercut is like watching Matt Zoller Seitz' Wes Anderson book come to life.

An entertaining literary supercut of 200 references to Hamlet from film and television.

Fifty years later: How ‘Mrs. Roosevelt’ Became the #1 hit ‘Mrs. Robinson’

Ready for the new season of High Maintenance?

In related news, there have been some major personal changes in the collaborative pair behind the show.

I've got to rethink my feelings about Woody Allen's life and work. I have a feeling this is something nobody outside their family will ever truly understand.

Did you see the rare shooting star over Michigan this week?

Ha! Parenting blizzard bingo.

Elena Ferrante, whoever she is, will be a columnist for the Guardian.

Kamala Harris had time for the Homeland Security Secretary.

I'm kind of obsessed with hygge livin' right now.


Saturday, January 13, 2018

Top Ten Reads from 2017


I've been keeping lists of books that I've finished for 10 years, and while scrolling through them I love comparing how many I read from year to year, remembering first encounters with now-favorite titles, and thinking about what I'll read next.

Here are my top ten reads from 2017 in order I came across them. Some are old favorites, others were new on the shelf or new to me.

The Paris Wife by Paula McLain
March, Books One, Two, and Three by John Luis, Andrew Aydin, and Nate Powell
Eligible by Curtis Littenfeld
Theft by Finding by David Sedaris
Where the Mountain Meets the Moon by Grace Lin
You Don't Have to Say You Love Me by Sherman Alexie
The Uncommon Reader by Alan Bennett
Essays After Eighty by Donald Hall

    Do you see any favorites here? Others you stumbled upon in the last year and love?




Friday, January 12, 2018

Freeform Friday


After being under the weather this week, the weather helped us all out with a wonderful snow day today. We've been snug and cozy inside watching movies, napping, and taking it easy. I hope you have a cozy weekend, and I hope you enjoy my favorite links from the past week.

President Obama's favorite books from 2017.

And picks for books, music, and more from my local library.

What the men didn't say at the 75th Golden Globe Awards.

Please enjoy Natalie Portman making the all-male Best Director nominees very uncomfortable.

Burn! Debra Messing calls out E! for equal pay dispute.

Because Michelle Williams received less than 1% of Mark Wahlberg's paycheck for reshoots of their film, "All the Money in the World."

“Oh, god. These are those cinnamon rolls, aren’t they?”

I want to start a coven, not a sorority, in my hometown.

This kale and apple salad looks like the perfect side to cider-braised chicken.

I'm obsessed with The Crown, and this side-by-side with the actors and the people they play in real life is everything.

Well done. A former envelope factory is now one of the largest medical marijuana facility in Massachusetts.

A chic insider's traveling guide to Aix-en-Provence, France.

[Photo from Pure Michigan on Instagram.]

Friday, January 5, 2018

Freeform Friday


After a lovely week away, I'm trying to check off the final items on my vacation to-do list (like printing photos from the last 2.5 years). I'm also excited to head to book club on Sunday because my lovely friend with a beautiful home perched above a lake is hosting, and we're talking about a great book that has clear connections to the only show I've obsessively watched in years.

I hope you have a cozy weekend, and I hope you enjoy my favorite links from the past week.

Two dying memoirists wrote bestsellers about their final days. Then their spouses fell in love.

A great mix of humor and remorse in a new essay from David Sedaris.

Hat's off to Iceland for putting their money where their mouth is when it comes to equal pay for women. 

A bad ass protest poem from Sherman Alexie.

Thank you to Pete Souza for bringing some humor and cutting commentary to a wild 2017.

What best movies from 2017 are still on your list?

If you're looking for a great Instagram with historical photos, check out this and this.

(Photo from The Village on Instagram.)